why you have to pay a pro domme

it is amazing the kinds of emails i get. that i am a gold digger(i say that myself), that i am a scammer/thief because i charge slaves, etc


you would think that grown ass men would be smarter than that

of course i charge for my services!!!!! my rent needs to get paid, i have no way of stealing latex ballgowns, & i've been trying for years to buy a house with foot rubs(unsuccessfully).

in your mind:
"i'm horny & lonely.i wish some sexy woman would crave my cock & do nasty things to me.i can't motivate women to spend time with me for free because i am not witty or handsome. i have to pay. these women are taking advantage of me. they are thieves! all women are whores", etc

what you fail to realize(& this goes for all sorts of relationships, not just bdsm) everybody needs to get paid something. either affection, time,money, back rubs, whatever. nobody does anything for free. you can pay her with dinners or cold hard cash but she will get paid. if you are a bore, unattractive, out of shape, have a horrible, negative attitude, etc you will have to pay even more.

i get it. you are an average looking man about 50 years old. you have a good job, a car but not a millionaire.nothing special, just overall average in every way.i'm sure a woman your age would be interested in marrying you, but you'd rather just fuck a teenager.

well guess what?
that ain't happening

the teenager can fuck anyone,she doesn't have time for you.she couldn't care less & you start to be angry at EVERY woman. instead of just settling down with that sweet 50 year old woman, you have to turn into a sex worker hating asshole.spewing hate on every forum but never in public(because that would require balls that you don't have).

i get that i have written this all before but i see it needs to be repeated(possibly even every day).